There’s something about preparing for Christmas that brings out both the planner and the procrastinator in us all. The lists are written - lists highlighting the gifts to buy, food to organise, events to attend, cards to write. We all know the feeling of wanting the season to be special and meaningful, not rushed; joyful, not frantic. And somewhere between getting the wrapping paper, meal planning, and putting calendar reminders into our phones, a theme emerges: preparation shapes the experience. Being prepared is not about control, but readiness. Being prepared helps us to focus on the people not the logistics. Being prepared builds confidence for ourselves and those around us. Getting ready for Christmas is not about completing all the tasks, but about being present, helping others to flourish - qualities that lie at the heart of good leadership too.
A few weeks ago, I went to see To Kill a Mockingbird at the theatre in Cardiff. Set in 1934 Alabama, Harper Lee’s Pulitzer Prize–winning story was brought to life through an incredible performance and a powerful adaptation of the book. One of the lines that stayed with me was: “You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view… until you climb inside his skin and walk around in it.” It raises an important question: How do we truly empathise with another person? How do we broaden our perspective—our range of perspectives—and see an issue through someone else’s eyes? How do we connect deeply enough to understand what it means to walk in another person’s shoes? The answer begins with a simple commitment: we need to invest in others. Invest our time, our energies and our care.